I remember a long time ago a friend of mine suggested I read "The Rules" She exclaimed and gave her testimony about how the book gave her sight beyond sight(ha..thundercats) into the world of dating...Of course I paid her no mind. And as she scrutinized just about every dude she dated with these damn rules..she was no closer to capturing and retaining a husband, than the next chick.. I've never been one for self help books that were overtly preacher, but i stayed getting an Inyanla Vanzant book each year...Damn, i thought what's wrong with me?...My conclusion absolutely nothing. I think in my perusing of library and and bookstore racks I came across Sistagurl rules but, just like it's counterpart...I wasn't for it...Lemme list a few rules for u..

* Don't accept a Saturday night date after Wednesday
* Don't talk to a man first (and don't ask him to dance)
* Don't call him and rarely return his calls
* Don't meet him halfway or go dutch on a date

Apparently you have some women who swear by this...and in a recent issue of Glamour, I think Cheryl Tiegs of all people was singing it's praises.. *shrugs* Different strokes for different folks.. I think i'mma do some more scouring to find out the success rate...It seems the 2 authors do seminars..I bet they do..they also offer the book in several different languages..The also have a The Rules to Online dating...who knew??? Things like this make me anxious to find my writing niche and exploit it so i can get those $$$'s why not want some notoriety?