As I sat on the bus this morning, jamming to Michael McDonald's assorted hits...I thought about the new rash of commercials out slammin eharmony/match.com because it denied gay matches..Now I'm thinking in my mind, wow..that's deep...but then i started thinking, what about those people who are just highly picky and just straight out ass holes?..do they get rejection letters as well? Then i began to think I wanted to do some research on how much these sites make....They have to be making a killing because according to some friends who subscribe(and who have yet to find a match or a union that is reality harmonious) the more months u subscribe that's where the savings kick in...Like when you log into the site I'm sure u get a few days free(discount bargaining dating?)...but just as you finally get a bite on your overly thought about profile..you need to pay 20 something odd bucks to retrieve anything. So far only 1 associate swears by match.com..and i say kudos to her...a coworker subscribes and hearing her complain about the pictures that dudes take..and their answers in their profiles..it's a wonder anyone finds anything..and i will admit that often dudes don't know how to take 1 decent picture..and for some reason they end up posting something that looks awkward and distorted..and wonder why their not getting any bites? I mean guy, if you know you have taco meat..shave it and then retake your picture. Or you look like u got a lil ashen sheen on your hands or face...moisturize your situation and preserve your sexy...don't be ashamed to get a female friend to take a picture of you..I'm sure she knows what angles u look good at(cause trust she's been looking at you.. like..can i do him? should i do him? ok this is off on a tangent...but at some point a mutual friend has looked at you in some way other than friendship..or at least thought about it) Anyway..another popular site is BlackPeopleMeet..the urban alternative to the other matching sites...which is nothing but blackplanet if you ask some..Another of my coworkers met her current man on their...and if that's any indication of the quality of folks on that site..no thanks! (not judging their shit but the make up to break up erry 2 weeks..is a bit much for me..then making your profile public again..hahaha..yeah ok) Or you can do it the free and easy way...craigslist..I was at a homeboys bday celebration last year..and this adorable couple was canoodlin and i thought how sweet..i sparked a convo with them and they said their friend craig had hooked them up...Craig Slist...hahaha my dumb ass was like oh that's nice..then i thought CRAIGSLIST!!! hahaha So by this point I guess your wondering which method have i used..well i used craigslist and went one date( dude told me that going to get ice cream was wack...i pretty much told him he was wack for trying to floss his cash..and that cheesecake factory is not flossin) And i think i was on echemistry for all of 2 days...basically their procedure is matching you to people that match your answers..not according to your preferences..and i think i got a ton of white dudes...and that's just not my preference...So now i'm just coasting..not actively seeking..and enjoying life... and i'd rather it that way...i found that when i sought things out it didnt happen for the kid..so right now it's about the kid ! *thumbs up* OH yeah and i'm pretty much awesome!

Last night as i was preparing my dinner..something weird kept happening..the pilot kept going out in the oven..so i'm sitting there waiting on the salmon to be done..and it's taking a long time..so i'm like ok salmon doesnt take that long..so i go back the pilot is out again..but this time a whole hour has passed. So i say forget and put it on the forman grill..the only thing about the forman is that it kinda grills the outside too hard for me..the salmon caesar salad turned out well but that pilot thing is scaring me..what if i was in the house with my ac running no windows up?