Operation over before it started. ( a womans account on hollering)


Now you'd think that by 32, I'd have the whole hollering game down. Nope! I get nervous, fumble and forget my purpose. One could argue if someone was truly interested in you they'd approach you. Some of my ladies are in agreeance(sp? i mean is it even a word) that a dude should approach first...well who's right?


Yesterday while playing hooky, I'd happened upon a brief family outing to arundel mills mall. We just so happened to hit up the food court. In my haste to go to the bathroom, i saw a dude checking me out...mostly i thought he thought i was a dumbass for scooting to the bathroom. butttttt..not so much..i came back..sat down and he commenced to looking around, then look back at me...Now anyone who's been out with a mother figure..knows u try to keep the holla minimal...but sometimes you gotta throw caution to the wind. so i'm playing it cool..bidding my time...then he packs up to leave..i let him pass...he turns back briefly..i pretend to be in conversation. At this point..Deana asked what was wrong with me.. I give chase and walk to Kenneth Cole..not there..Banana Republic not there...he went to Benetton...It's at this point that i look at my satchel and discover my coat was gone! shit!, i thought...i mean this shit only happens to me... what do u think i did?

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I went back and back tracked and got my coat..

Oh well!

See..even us social butterflies have social awkwardness..

ps. r.kelly show dude text me this morning
sheesh

As you can tell from the lack of early morning updates I've been on vacation from work. I've extended it one more day and am seriously thinking of calling out tomorrow to complete my errands. I woke up this morning whipped...i'd worked myself into a tizzy last night..between the chicago v. denver game and the eagles v. pats..A sister was every where..but in a good way...It wasn't til 11pm that i started experiencing abdominal pain. I knew 1 of 2 things were happening..my period was here or my cysts were back...it was the period..ugh!!! But i can't say she didn't serve me well this weekend. Ugh! My friend thought it would be nice to go to a concert..didn't tell me who till we got there...i shoulda known some shit was up when we pulled up in front of the first mariner arena...But it was motherfucking r. kelly!! Now, i mean i like a few of his songs and it wasn't until i heard them all at once that memories waved over me and i started laughing because in college people thought 12 play was the end all b all for slow music and setting the mood...well this jackass i was with thought that shit was a mickey for a good evening :( wrong...I mean i had to sit thru j.holiday and keyshia cole(who busted her high waisted shorts)...The only redeeming quality woulda been Neyo but from the innernets gossip buzz...Kells kicked Neyo off the tour cause his set and performance was blazing....man, tomorrows entry will go more in depth about this concert...I mean simply put, Bmore loves Kells...Man the sights!! And i went to the concert a lil toasty..i mean dude knows me a bit..he knew he'd have to likka me up to pull this shit over on me...but by the end of the night i was done..and ready to go home...was sha being a bitch? absolutely...he dropped me off and exclaimed he was going out for more drinks....to which i responded...Don't get none on ya! In all probability....you think he'll take me out again? You think it's over? hahaha i think not...i've come to find out that dudes like a lil bitch erry now and again...ok folks off to run errands!!!!

One thing I hate about commuting is, the crazy commuters. Gone are the days
when you could ride to work with your music in solitude. It has been replaced with
loud teens on their way to school, grown ass men chirping people first thing in the morning, ghetto chicks spewing the virtues of not giving head too soon and my favorite
the people that don't like moving to the back to make space for on coming commuters. This morning as I came to work all chipper and late(yes late..but not really..i can get here between 730-8..i got here @8) But yeah back to the bus. This particularly bus..i suppose she was ahead of her schedule and decided to shit idly by the road side..I mean come on notify the passengers or something. We're sitting there 1 green light. 2 green lights, 3...come on! I suppose a few buses had passed because my bus never got crowded but it was still filled with quite a few characters. As i played with my ipod i noticed the older dude in front of me basically dangling from the pull string...I looked up at the monitor that says "stop requested," it was lit..so i tapped dude on the shoulder like..son...and pointed to the sign...He just said thank you and kept it moving...maybe he wasn't paying attention or it coulda been that cheap booze he used a cologne first thing in the morning. At any rate I bought some new earphones for my ipod, and i can barely hear any outside interference..so maybe the ding didn't go off..

*sigh*
I once again fought the urge to stay my black ass in bed this morning. But i decided not to use any time because xmas is coming up and i wanna stock pile my remaining days to do one big 3 weeks vacation :). So I'm here at work today with some skinny jeans on and a turtleneck sweater..will i get in trouble? who cares! It's the last day before we break for thanksgiving..have a heart.

Last night i finally got my design in the side of my head. I had been buggin Dean's for the longest time...i truly believe it would take this hairstyle to max..and that it did..sorry i'll have a pic update later...it's kinda hard taking a pic of the side of ya head..maybe it's not..maybe i'm being lazy..OKOKOK...i'll post it


ALRIGHT DARLINGS..HAVE A SAFE AND BLESSING THANKSGIVING.
*BIG HUGZ*

There once was this show called Sex in the City. The stylist for the show was a spunky older lady named Patricia Fields. P. Fields blazed trails with the brash fashion she implemented into the show. I mean hell she was the show besides Carrie Bradshaw(Sarah Jessica Parker) I mean who wasn't checking for P. Fields. Some figured she was way too old to be stylin such a young show...but if P. Fields hasn't taught us anything..it's that fashion knows no bounds...including age. I was reading thru the new issue of Essence and Marie Clare when I spied theeee most wonderful news since i found out I could use my laptop as a teevee.. Payless had approached P. Fields and came up with the proposal for her to distribute a line of shoes thru them...I don't know about you..but Payless is not the Payless of the past years. At the 79th Annual Academy Awards, Fields wore her shoes she designed for Payless..and turned the industry on it's head...ok...I don't know about you but people barely admit to buying payless shoes..Recently with it's designer line from Abaete..Payless is finna take over..To read up about, go HERE I mean these shoes are so me...Here a few under the cut
Saki Pump, retailing for $40
Sushi Boot, retailing for $55
With anything designer there comes a price and these are a nice little coin for payless some may think. But in recent years payless has been quietly raising the prices..and people are more than willing to pay it. I'm truly excited to see the rest of the line
There's even a clutch

I mean hell i also found Sam Fine's blog..*drools*
I mean come on..he's Sam Fine. He's worked on what seems like everyones face in the industry.
CHECK IT OUT HERE..
ALSO HIS WEBSITE..

The weekend was awesome...Even tho I missed the Wonderfull party..Friday in York made up for it. All we had planned was that we would meet at Erica's. As soon as we went to the market, the likka store, the beer garden and some random spot we were ready to rock. We made an impromptu meal..the ipod was set on digital dj's...and the drinking commenced. I was the official bartender for the evening. We were all full steam ahead till about 12am..Now for women who are usually in bed @10ish..we were all showing off. Then it happen...i just hit a wall and got tired as hell...next thing i know I'm balled up on the couch with a blanket over me..just as I was the last time i went to visit. The next day we all got up and ambled around the house waiting for breakfast...Which was superbly deliciously..the only thing that would have put it over the top was some Mimosa....sweet nectar of the gods! Now as we all basked in the afterglow that was breakfast, we heard a rapping at the patio door. I looked down and saw Quincy(Quince) staring into the house with something in his mouth. Too full to focus from afar, i got up and went to the door and looked..it was a mouse..a rather large field mouse. Now Erica had told us a story about Quince getting in the house with a dead one before but he actually knocked like someone was gonna let him in this go round. He stood there pacing with the mouse in his mouth
..dead to the world..then he jumped up on the patio table..so he could get a lil more eye contact and face time ..all the while the company(all the ladies..excluding myself) screamed at Quince to put the mouse down..after about 5 minutes..Quince escorted his catch off the patio and onto the grass..right at the bottom of the patio landing. It wasn't till later that someone almost bust their head trying to avoid it that it became funny again...At any rate when Quince put the mouse down i let him in..everyone squealed...ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww MOUSEBREATHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!! *shrugs* I mean it was chilly..and even outside cats need love... ahahah

After we motivated and finally got out of our lazy rut..we went shopping...Ya girl copped..2 pairs of slacks, 2 sweaters, 3 shirts, 1 dress, 2 pairs of shoes and cakes pans for 68 bucks..no kidding... And if i told you where I went to get all this I'd have to kill you. Even tho it's no big secret..it's mine.. all mine. By the time we got back to bmore I was more beat then I thought so I took a nap...A friend wanted to hang out in DC..needless to say I never made it.

Sunday was spent watching thee football and watching lifetime(i know i reached an all time low) I was defeated yet again this week by 0.35 pts...geez...But I'm still #1...I got 185.36 in scoring this week..thanks to T. Brady..Further distancing myself from #2..Holla!!!!!

ps. No matter how many times i color my hair it always ends up the same color in the end..darkbrown/auburn(for my haircolorish 2/33) Last wednesday I colored it a rich burgundy...i had to rewash it last night now it's back to the original color almost with some burgundy low lights...

I was so damn late this morning. Like I woke up at 830, like it was nothing. I suppose i neglected to set my alarm clock but the truth of the matter is, I was going back and forth about coming in. I decided to come in since i owed money to different people in the office for various school fund raisers I'd patronized. Everything from Girl scout cookies to Joe Corbi's pizza. In addition I still owed money for the office luncheon tomorrow which i was suckered into..but eh. This morning I just wasn't feeling it..From my hair to my outfit it showed. I threw on jeans, a sweater and some chucks. I mean i packed some work slacks and even put them on..but felt stoopid after i did..so i changed back into the jeans. I also didn't relax my hair as i do post shape up and trim...I'm rocking out...My hair doesn't necessary get kinky it curls up and kinda hinders the straightness of this razor cut. I suppose another factor is this rain. Like i don't wanna do anything but lay in the bed. And the rain is my hair's #1 enemy. But i do know i wanna be fresh to def for this weekends girls weekend activities. Don't get me wrong my hair is in no kinda way lacking in funk right now..actually it looks very white girl right now so yeah.

I've been asked by 2 different families to provide one of my famous desserts for several holiday activities. It made me feel good inside that people specifically requested it at separate dinners. Like my food is good enough to give your loved ones and friends. Last year I went to 5..yes count them 5 houses...Ate at about 3..picked at the last 2..but was forced to take plates...yes plural..I think i had leftovers for a week..which was fine..because normally i loathe leftovers. But there's something about thanksgiving leftovers that sits well with me :).

I sold my treo last night as a power pack(3 cases, a memory card and the phone and components) and made a pretty penny off of it. Dude was impressed that i kept up with everything that came with the phone..being as tho i got the phone almost 2.5 years ago. I can't believe i got rid of my treo but progress has to be made. My friends tease me about how small the centro is..but i mean i have small hands and fingers..so it works for me.

Last night before going to Deana's i stopped at the Raw bar and had a dozen oysters and a few beers.. Nothing like oysters and clams man. I'd venture to say that it's heaven to me. Give me some fresh oysters and brew any day...

Ps. Don't threaten me with a good time.

I can say with my whole heart that i love Hello Kitty(my new Centro), but I'd love her a helluva alot more if her software was 100% compatible with the Windows Vista OS on my laptop. Sure Palm came up with a roundabout way to keep your Centro sync'ed but all be damned if you want to use it as a modem or even manage your music on it @ home or any machine with Vista on it for that matter. I know you're saying to yourself, "Well are u returning it?" Hell and no. Mainly because I know the good people at Palm and Windows are working steadfastly to solve this problem for me and the other enthusiastic Centro users. But that didn't stop me from having a hilarious talk/webchat with a Dell tech last night. In a nutshell I asked would it be wise to downgrade my current OS(Operating system) or ride it out..and basically dude/chick didn't say..which was no help. Briefly, I thought of downgrading to XP...but i said fuck it...I'm going to ride it out. I just won't be using my Centro as a modem in the time being. And I can manage and maintain music files @ work..Yes i said at work. But the Centro is a better deal than my Treo650. it came with programs I had accumulated over the years. So that freed up alot of space on the handset. I'm still going to cop the 1G mini sdcard, so i can pimp my Centro out...But i do love Hello Kitty bunches..Now to accessorize(so not a word) her!

Girls weekend is shaping up. I tried to veer the ladies to the Wonderfull party in DC but no takers. Lames!!..but i love them. Having been to a Wonderfull party in just about every eastern seaboard city, i can say I'm glad DC finally decided to put on one of these. I lost myself in Philly and NYC...I mean just hours of great music. I've never 2 stepped so much in my damn life. All i can say for those going...wear those comfy shoes, because if you're a Stevie fan..there's no sitting down!

The new baby will be here in about 2 more days..if not tomorrow. For the longest time i longed for something a lil bit more streamlined. And it's finally here. With built in messenger apps and the usual things i used on my Treo650, the Palm Centro is poised to take over the smart phone game. Also with it's limited time only $99(with 2 year contract) price tag, I'd venture to say everyone will have a smart phone..no more flips. I haven't had a flip phone in over 3 years. The Treo650 has served me well with it's infinite possibilities but it's time I upgraded and got something a lil less chunky. I thought about other phone such as the i phone, 8525 and of course the Sprint Mogul but those didn't appeal to me like the Centro..maybe it was the bright red candy apple exterior(or the the fact that they retained the touch screen app) but i couldn't help it...After 3+ years with a gun metal Grey phone, yeah...some color is needed..and i can still use it as a modem...yesh! I sent out a text to a few people announcing I'd be selling my treo..and no sooner had i sent it out..i got a text back sold! awesomeeee..the extra padding in my pocket will make this a great kick off to the girls weekend.

Yesterday I wore a hat all day at work.
Don't i look like a damn deer in headlights? It panned out well, but i could sense some of the admins were jelly because they wished they could've worn a hat. I was gonna make it 2 days in a row but i decided to give it a rest and comb my damn hair. The past few days I've been sleeping pretty wild so when i wake up my scarf is either off or around my neck :( The defeats the purpose of the extra laid hair right :(

I put on a wig last night and thought i looked absolutely ridiculous. Could it be my perception of hair as an added accessory is slowly flying out of the window?

Girls weekend Holla!! York, PA wont be the same... Each year we go back I have a damn ball...

ps. i still have no teevee..the one that was given to me was broken..the piece to connect the cable to the teevee was broke..so i'm still rocking out with my laptop and tv tuner attached...holla recorded sporting events!

pps. I'm still number #1 but barely in my ff league..the nearest person is now 2 pts off...I'mma need all my started to have a great weekend next week.. and in my BBfl i'm number 5..but i'm not worried.

Good thing i was sleep or I'd have a visual recollection of how ridiculous that damn game was. I woke up about 7pm. and felt no kinda way about missing the game. I could tell by the number of missed messages I got, it must've been one humdinger of a game.
I was really tired from the night before and the company that crashed at 430am. I had just got in from a baby shower and DC.

So i guess I don't have to say which event I chose to attend. That was over about 9ish..all my friends at the baby shower, asked what was there to do in DC. I think I called a little of everyone..and everyone I called was headed to the party in Philly..L for me. So after informing the friends that no one knew of anything to do. My friend Nick had the bright idea of driving around DC. Now I've seen DC plenny times...to know where spots are..so forth and so on. So Nick asked our other friend Kay if she knew of anything...Kay holla'ed some spot in NW that plays hip hop...genius i said..Aroma..I'd forgotten all about Aroma...and also had met a dude who was the GM for this one company that ran about 5 spots between here and DC. So Kay bullshitted as to where Aroma was..I didn't know and by this time i was peeved, that Kay didn't just say she didn't know where the hell she was going and what the hell she was talking about. So she took her lie a step further and said that there was a hip hop lounge on U street..Aroo? She says it's over top Bohemian Caverns..I was like uh Liv? Ummm nah it ain't there...i could sense she was getting pissed because her jig was up...so she tried to say that the damn hip hop lounge was in Adams Morgan @ the beginning...I was like ugh! Common Share is closed! I couldn't believe she would really try to pass off Common Share for a hip hop lounge but whatever...Now I'm really peeved... 1. because we're stuck in Adams Morgan traffic and 2. my legs are numb... So after that she had the nerve to guide Nick to Georgetown..I said what's up here Modern? and Kay was just like i don't even know...i don't get out much..So after she finally admitted(2 hours later) that we took her ass home and we took our asses home. I get a text @ 4amish...just as I'm exiting the car...being that i had a bust of a night..i said sure..and ended up having a better time with my company than i had the past 3 hours...I shoulda went to Philly tho... geez.

And now I'm here at work..with a hat on..we'll see if anyone says anything to me..because fuck it...i don't really feel like doing my hair. Trife but true!

It's pretty hard being a trend setters/taste maker...Those things that you just so happen to throw together that becomes your signature only to be seen on other folks. No this isn't another hair entry...rather a makeup entry.

As I do every fall/winter I get back into the eye shadows. During the summer my eye creases and it leaves the eyeshadow looking ratty and smudged on my eye. My skin also produces alot of oil..that's why i despise summer rain(no not the song). In the summer right after it rains it gets so humid..my skin gets shiny and my hair gets fuzzy..anyway..I broke out my arsenal of cosmetics and have been doing it up in the office. Then one faithful week...i turned this office on it's head. I started doing the multiple colors(of course light for work). The next day in the office i did my eyes in a light peacockesque palette..only i had the green..blue and brown on my lid..purple mascara on my eyes..I know i know..you can't imagine all this..but it was gorgeous..for those that know me..know i wouldn't be sitting somewhere looking like bozo..Immediately it was..what do u have on? how can i do that? Also that's the other downside to working with an office full of women. You on your grown and sexy(*earls a bit* i cant believe i said that)..so the next chick trying to show you what she has....But that's not me..I'm always here at 730 in the am...done from head to toe..it's my work/professional presentation..now back to the story...so the Mary Kay consultant in the office was like oh i have blue and purple mascara..so what do the office biddies do...buy her colored mascara out...I shoulda demanded a cut..even tho i didn't have on MK(long story..some other time) Needless to say these hoes don't know what to do with it...or how to coordinate it...so no one has worn theirs yet...good for me right?...wrong... :( Can't a bidge have anything :( *sigh* I don't think anyone feels my pain. A friend of mine said i should be flattered people wanna emulate what I'm doing because that means I'm doing it right...again *shrugs*

I'm still not any closer to deciding if I'm going out of town for the party or stayin local. A part of me wants to see both sets of friends...but hmmmm...if i stay home i can do the mall/possibly tail gate sunday..if i go outta town i gotta spend that money for travel... :( Maybe my outta town friends will come down for a part Dec 8th. I'll see how i feel after this mimosa happy hour I'm going too..

*hugz

Have a groovy weekend

ps. why clinton portis

Read more HERE

Also Hov pulling American Gangster from I tunes because he wants folks to buy the whole cd not individual songs...pfffffffffffffttttttttttttt...It was there late monday..early tuesday then g0ne!...He needs to worry bout the bootleggers..HOV!

I woke up so late this morning...I mean so late for me.
The kid just doesn't have it like she use to anymore.
I went over the bff's house last night for our weekly dinner
and drinks pow..wow. Left there about 11..Got home forgot I had
some beans soaking for a bean stew..I started them and then realized
I'd fall asleep...Didn't want the apartment to burn down..so i turned them off..
and called myself letting the pot cool..i never took the pot of the stove..
So my beans are soaking for the 2nd day in a row..It'll be bean porridge by
the time i get to cook them this evening.

Hmmmmmmmmm...Something was on my mind...

Oh! This morning when i got up it was cold as shit in my apartment..
No semblance of heat was felt. I called my landlord as soon as I got to work.
I was like uh you think you can turn the heat on in the building now..He's like
is it cold in there...umm hell yes..it was 29 this morning..and the heat is on well..nothing..off.

I hate when i double book myself for events on the weekend. I totally forgot I rsvp'ed for a baby shower...then i excepted a invite to a party out of town :(.
I still don't know what i'mma do.. *shrugs*

There's something to be sad when you take a risk with fashion and you pull it off. This morning as i dressed for work, I had this bright idea to liven up my basic black and grey out fit. I wanted just a pop of color..So i paired my black tuxedo capris with a grey and black striped cap sleeved turtleneck sweater...but instead of some boring black tights..i decided to throw on some olive green ones..with my ruched booties, instead of some regular knee boots. I also did my eyes up...and the nice lil added touch is the earrings :)





I do feel this punch of color has brightened up my day..and i feel extra girly cute...

yay me..

this entry was about nothing..

Man we sustained a hell of a ass whoopin last night. As intended we didn't go to Midtown...and i can say I'm glad... I was sulking in the house. The only thing that got me thru was a call and a few text from an awesome friend. But other than that...i drank a few glasses of wine and fell the hell out..

UGH!

Soooo I know you're wondering, did i indeed see America Gangster..Hell and No...Everywhere was packed...taking me back to my initial thought of catching a matinée during the work week. I'm sure i can convince someone to play hooky with me. But finally the second part of my prayers have been answered. The first part being that they open a Starbuck's in my hood and part 2...please open another movie theater in downtown..i mean hell anywhere..so i don't have to catch the bus out into the county to see a movie...a mainstream movie that is...I mean i do have The Charles but it's an IFC type deal...So on Friday or thereabout Harboreast Landmark opened. And as u can see I'm stoked...Finally a step in the right direction..now for something closer to the center..like in the Mt. Vernon area would be lovely. But i don't wanna get to ahead of myself before God stops listening to me. Yay God!

Yesterday after going to the Flea Market we crash landed into The Midtown Yacht Club . I previously spoke on it's mimosa goodness. But we settled in to watch a few games...we each sipped from our pitchers of mimosa...because i mean it's a pitcher(we combined 2 straws and drank from it) I mean it's football sunday..what's better than tipsy trash talk. And as i previously stated before, i got the grande mal of hatred yesterday. Most if not all of the people were cheering for the Colts..me I'm for the Pats..So this guy was like who you cheering for, oh u a gurl so lemme see...the dude with the best pic....i just laughed..i said no boo..the Pats...if T. Brady does good..i sail into another week of being #1 in my fantasy football league. He pauses..yeah right he says..who's your rb? who's ya wr? I mean fuck it..who's ya QB? I stated all the names..even my defense...He was flabbergasted..I even had to go one step further and show him my team...at which time he asked who picked it for me..now at this point i was all for some trash talk...but don't offend my sensibilities...I broke it down to him and offered to buy him a drink to further emasculate him in front of his boys. Of course he denied the drink...but for the rest of the night he kept calling me "Coach." Yeah suck it barboy...u just wasn't ready for someone..the likes of me...Needless to say I'm going back tonight to watch the Ravens. Speaking of Fantasy Football...With a projected win of 169.22 to 115.48, Bmore Bruised crushed this weeks opponents Dem Boys with an actual score of 199.85 to 132.39. T. Brady lead the team yet again with the most points followed by C. Portis exactly 1 pt off. *breaths in win* And i have 1 game left..because I have M. Stover as my kicker..Going into week 10 T. Brady has a bye..and that lends perfect time to unleash D. Anderson, whom I've been sitting on since week 5..Alright enought sports talk for my ladies.

Enjoy people..

ps. what about this gorgeous scarf weather????

There are a few things I'm looking forward to this weekend. If you can't tell by the pics then you're blind. Not only am I pumped about American Gangster..I'm pumped about Monday's match up for Baltimore. I'm also excited to bounce back from my FF lose this pass week..I mean I still am Number 1..but seeing that 8-0 would have been much more sweet..

I refused to get the bootleg of American Gangster...I mean i was tempted but nothing like seeing it in the dark with about 60 other strangers. I also refused the soundtrack. I can't express how much i really want to see this movie.

Last night I went over the BFF's house to eat and drink. A few other friends were over. One friend bought his frat brother and needless to say it was on..Flirting everywhere. At one point me and dude were walking up and down(respectively..he down..me up) the spiral steps at the same time..and we squeezed by...giving that good eye contact..owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww..those mimosa's helped..hehe..well further fueled the embers. What can i say I'm a flirt..We started talking about how tequila no longer had the worm in it..he asked did i like worm in my tequila..i said no but, i do like my drink stirred...hahahah that bought the house down. Innuendo at it's best.

Feeling cute and fanciful today...Charmeuse is that fabric ladies...hop on it!

Send some up for ya homie...i fired off a cover letter and resume for a job 2 blocks from my house...Holla!

Solo!
Seems everyone either took off or called out..and that's fine with me.. I get way more done on the job when the office is empty. I also don't have to battle with someone else's music..score!

Day 2 I'm still fuzzy...my hair that is...and this morning i totally thought of something i learned a long time ago from a cosmetologist friend. I wanted to perm my hair yesterday but for some reason I wasn't in a rush like i normally am. I loafed around and had dinner at a friend's house. So as i prepared for bed last night i thought tomorrow I'll relax it. No I'll be hanging out again. Then as I type this out i remember for optimal relaxer takeage(so not a word) you aren't supposed to relax your hair while you're on your cycle. Something about the high level of estrogen and hormones. Mostly that your hair cuticle is not as perceptive to a relaxer as it would be if u weren't on your cycle... So i suppose this weekend. Sorry about the cycle talk fellas..you get your cycle too...

Holla!!!! I broke out the velvet blazers..I'm dapper baby..I love fall.

Let's see..as you can tell life is grand ,so i really don't have much on my mind...no retrospectives on anything...just loving life..no manhavior...i guess dudes on that ack right this week..never lasts long tho.

It's thursdayyyyyyyyyyyyyy people..enjoy